"If we did all we were capable of doing, we would literally astonish ourselves."
From young, we explore and visualise a myriad of occupations that fascinate us and hope that we would one day do it. Imagine if we are able to do it one by one, how amazing is that?
However, most of us often end up being NATO. Not the the North Atlantic Treaty Organisation but No Action, Talk Only.
Why?
We are fearful of stepping out of the comfort zone, even though we plan meticulously to succeed.
Just like the Hem in the Who moved my cheese, though we know we must be cautious and plan every step carefully, we eventually let fear stop us from playing the game.
Not only was the dream smashed, our motivation is killed by the obsession on the fear of the unknown that we look forward to nothing each day and convince ourselves that nothing is worth pursuing as the risks is definitely more than the advantages of pursuing.
However, that is wrong.
Often, when one step out and explore beyond the comfort zone, they find another thing or arrangement that is far more superior than what is present.
Then one being to wonder how can we not see this earlier?
We of course cant as we are blinded by fear.
Fear is often the result of thinking too much. It is a sign that you are reading beyond what is between those lines that it creates such a negative picture or emotions that one seeks to avoid at all costs.
Where does the fear comes from?
The fear stems from the fear of being hurt, the fear of pain, the fear of failure to meet expectations and the fear of losing self-worth as it is impinged on ability to carve a success for oneself.
However, beautiful things comes from struggle. It is through the period of struggle that one learnt a lot of things so when they emerge from the struggle, they become beautiful creatures. Just like the butterfly after going through the tough period of metamorphosis. No matter how painful it is, it is beneficial to the butterfly as it can use the period of struggle to oil its wings so that when it emerges it can spread its wings and soar with ease.
Likewise for humans, we have to go through the struggle no matter how painful it is. It is through this painful testing that we equip ourselves with the necessary tools for the future.
Another reason for hindering 100% performance is the lack of commitment. I tend to find that using the peer pressure is a useful way of doing this.
Just announce to everyone that you are going to do certain things. People will naturally remind you when they enquire about the progress of your work. Naturally, to prevent loss of face, one will buck up and push for the things they need to finish.
No matter what ways or reasons, they should not be the ones that hinders the 100% performance that you are able to give. It is just a waste of energy thinking and potential to influence the rest of the world.
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